Me: Others, yes. Mine, almost clueless. What's up? Is there anything wrong between you and her?
X: She sort of wants to settle down with me, you know, serious relationship? Talk about the future and stuff.
X: I'm afraid that I'm not ready for it.
Me: Dude, you're 25. How can you not be ready for a serious relationship? What are you scared of?
X: What if things just stop working out? What if.. there's someone out there better for me?
Me: Well, if that's the case.. There's always someone better out there for her, too but she chose you.