Wednesday, April 24, 2013

50 Random Things About Me


  1. I hate when people touch my food without asking me first.
  2. I don't carry tissues everywhere. I know majority of girls bring tissues with them but I am in that minority group. 
  3. I am not very organized but when I do, I get a bit obsessive compulsive disorder about it.
  4. I am majoring in Software Engineering but I have no plans in pursuing programming.
  5. I am lazy.

Sunday, April 14, 2013

Habit of not being able to let go.

Fuck growing up.

I miss being in high school. Where you can meet your friends whenever you want. When you have lunch with the same people everyday and see them the next day.

I do not know how to let go when it comes to the memories of me and my friends. To see how some of us have drifted from each other and living their own lives, kills me. I am happy for them but I can't help it. I miss everyone so much.


Tuesday, April 09, 2013

Family

"Do you miss having a family?"

"I do but I try not think about it."

"Do you ever just sit down and cry about it?"

"Yes but I don't do it anymore"

"Why not? It's broken right?"

"Okay what's your definition of a perfect family?"

"Everyone living under the same roof and love each other. No offence, but your family lives in three different houses"

"What's the point of having everyone living under the same roof if they are going to keep fighting and arguing every now and then? My definition of family is different than yours. My father does not live with me but he knows dearly how much I love him. My siblings don't live with me but they come to my house often."

"But how can you be happy with this?"

"By being grateful"

Wednesday, April 03, 2013

Of cheating and being cheated on.

I am not sure if some of you have experienced being cheated on.. If you have, join the club and if you haven't, I pray to god you won't have to experience that because it sucks balls and you can or might feel insecure about everything after that.

Question: If your partner cheats on you, who would you 'attack' first; your partner or the third person?

I realized most answers would be the third person.

Another question: Why?

You should talk to your partner first because for all you know, that third person maybe was not informed about your partner's status. That third person might not know about your partner's relationship status but your partner sure as hell knows about his/hers.

And girls, if there are girls who are flirting with your boyfriend. Please don't say boys are being boys by 'entertaining' those girls. That's just like "Hey boyfriend, you can 'talk' to those girls because that's what boys do". No. Don't give excuses for your boyfriend. 

Unless if you have a proof that your partner did not spark any fireworks and that third person has no boundary with your partner, then you should go have that talk with the third person. Other than that, ask your partner to set some boundaries. 

Because it takes two to tango.